Overcoming Embarrassment

  Embarrassment  : மனதிற்குத் தொல்லை/ சங்கடம்

  The most important step towards improving our English Skills will be Eliminating Fear. In an given opportunity to Orate[Medai Pechu] in a new forum, everyone us will have following fear within us.  

1. Fear of Speaking in Proper English. 
2. Fear of others mocking at the way you speak.
3. Fear of What my Staff's/bosses are going to think about me.  
   

Out of the three Important Fears. Our Primary Fear will be being mocked by our New friends/colleagues, which results in an kind of inferiority complex. 

Before going in detail about how to overcome this Fear Coefficient. I wish all our Tamil readers to Shout out Loudly the Below lines of Mahakavi's Poem. One Should understand that a Healthy Confident Mind is necessary to break the hindrances that keeps our Moral Low. 

 

                                                                                            -- Mahakavi Bharathiyar.

    To overcome our fear, we need to first accept frankly that 

       "We can't speak proper English, because  

        We Didn't had opportunity to read(Not Study) English, 

        We hadn't Watched/Seen someone speak in English and Most Importantly 

        We didn't knew(or taught about) the importance of the language earlier."

   Saying that, "All others who capable of speaking in proper English were taught & given an opportunity to speak, listen & read English".

  First step from our side will identifying & Classifying friends with whom you spend most of your time with as

1.  Friends who are with you for mutual Improvement.
2.  Friends who are with you for mutual Entertainment.

Both friends will always play an important role in our life and equally essential for us. But as we got a vision with us, we need friends who can support us in that.

 

           

Our Learning Formula is Very Simple

Input [Listening + Reading + Watching] + Processing & Practice --->Output [Speaking+Writing]

Listening : In our day to day life there are many sources from where we can listen to English. 

Ex : Movies, News, cricket Commentary. We will also be shortly uploading Audio Books, which will help you develope your Communication Skills from Scratch.

Writing   : You can always write to us, about your interests. We will upload materials which will help you write Simple English for different occasions.

Reading  : We will upload interesting materials & articles for you to read. But other than that you can read News papers, Novels, Magazines etc.. that are available with you.

Interactive Speaking : We will support by connecting you to a tutor/volunteer, with whom you can always speak in English & clarify your doubts. 

A Short Inspirational Story/Poem : A Child's Poem - Muhaaa Muhaaa

     Kuu Vaaa, Kuu Vaaaaa,

    Voaaaa, Avuuu Avuuu, 

    Ouuuuu, Ovuuuuuuu,

    Moooohooo, Mhuaaaa... Yaa!!.

                   -- A Six months Old Baby.

So were you able to understand this story poem? No!! You can hear this poem sung in almost every homes of India. Okay I will translate this story to you.

 I came into this world to be Happy,

 I will get whatever I want by any means, No matter what other feel about that,

 I am speaking so sweetly, See how people are appreciating & Cheering me around.

 I might fall today. But remember, One day I will Run across the greenfield one Day.

 I won't give up... Yaa!!

But unfortunately we have lost the attitude of "never giving up", which everyone of us possessed as a Child. Lets become a child once again and Start our Journey towards speaking Fluent English. 

-- Lovingale Humane 

Feedback : Your Feedback will help up us improve us tremendously. As we are also a child in our efforts.